"I was walking around, just a face in the crowd trying to keep myself out the rain/Saw a vagabond king wear a styrofoam crown, wonder if I might end up the same/There's a man out on the corner, singing old songs about change/Everybody's got their cross to bare these days." "These Days" (Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, Desmond Child)
Everyone who was old enough (or young enough, I guess) in 1986 to have a radio probably remembers Bon Jovi's first BIG album, "Slippery When Wet". These same people probably remember the follow-up smash, "New Jersey" that was released in 1988. I remember when "Bon Jovi", the first album released came out in 1984, but only because it was my introduction to what I consider to be one of the best rock n' roll bands of my time. But does any one, aside from the die-hard fans like myself, remember "These Days"?
Most people my age can name a handful of Bon Jovi songs. In the 80's, they were everywhere on the radio; now a-days these same songs are on what's considered "Classic Rock" stations (which is painful for me). "You Give Love a Bad Name", "Living on a Prayer", "Wanted Dead or Alive" (my personal fav), "Never Say Goodbye" just to name a few. Even the stuff from the '90s and later like "Have a Nice Day", "Who Says You Can't Go Home" (written about New Jersey and returning to play Giants Stadium; also turned into a Country hit with the addition of vocals by Jennifer Nettles from Sugarland) are easily recognizable by most. But can anyone reading this, aside from myself, sing the lyrics in the correct melody that start this post? Probably not.
Most Bon Jovi albums follow a similar pattern. Upbeat, stadium anthems that people can sing along with. Anthems that talk about surviving the day-to-day difficulties of life on the neighborhood streets; love and relationships. Love songs that describe a love so amazing and deep that words can barely describe how strong the author's emotions are and how lonely he is without his love by his side. Each song with a verse, a chorus that's got a strong hook to it, a great guitar solo in the middle to highlight just how good Richie Sambora is (if you've never listened to the song "Dry County" off of "Keep the Faith", I highly recommend it....really shows off his talent), and somewhere in each song is a chance for Jon to show off his pipes. But on "These Days", it's all about raw emotions. The good, the bad, and the oh so very ugly (think about the raw and ugly that Lady Ga Ga speaks of in "Bad Romance", that's what they're writing about here). The only fist-pumping going on here is at the sky, and is accompanied by a multitude of cries begging for help, for answers and for mercy.
The first track, "Hey God" sounds like it belongs on the current album, "The Circle". The overall theme is someone asking God "what the hell is going on"; there's a family that's on the verge of loosing their home, a child who's destined to die young in the streets of his ghetto neighborhood, a man begging for God to tell him what to do with his life that has gone to crap because nothing around him is working. It's a very strong and somber tale that could easily fit into the landscape of today. The next song goes right along with this theme. "Something for the Pain" begs for something to fill the hole that's been left by that fantasy of the perfect lover, who is now gone. "I've tried to need someone, like they needed me/I opened up my heart but all I did was bleed" is deep, deeper than Jon, Richie and their often seen co-writer Desmond Child tend to go. It's that admission that most of us have to make at some point - I've been hurt, I'm bitter, I'm trying to open myself up to love but every time I do all I get is pain. And when Jon sings it in perfect harmony with Richie, you know that this pain is real.
Some of the saddest Bon Jovi songs to date are from this album, although I will admit that the new CD "The Circle" has some tear-jerkers for me on it. The majority of the songs are sad; there really isn't an upbeat one in the bunch of 12. The most "up-lifting" song, if you can call it that, is "Something to Believe In", in which Jon practically begs the universe to send him something, anything, that will restore his faith in the world. With each passing track, the listener goes deeper and deeper into the depression that comes from just having your heart broken by the one that you thought would never leave, by the world that you thought would never let you down. These are the songs you listen to when you're sitting on your floor and you think you can't cry any more, when it's 2 in the morning and you're exhausted but you can't sleep because when you close your eyes all you see is their face.
"Baby I thought you and me would stand the test of time, like we got away with the perfect crime/But we were just a legend in my mind, I guess that I was blind"from "This Ain't a Love Song" speaks of that illusion that most everyone has had at one point in their lives about their significant other that is eventually found to be false. Most of us have had that "great love" that we can't imagine our world without, until one day we're without them and we realize that all that time we thought they were the one, they weren't. "Now the sky it shines a different kind of blue/And the neighbor's dog don't bark like he used to/Yeah me - these days, I just miss you/It's the nights that I go insane/Unless you're coming back, for me that's one thing I know that won't change" rips my heart out every time I hear it in "It's Hard Letting You Go". I cried many a time to this song when I had my heart broken by the guy that I thought was going to be there forever. "I lost all faith in my God, and His religion too/I told the angels they could sing their songs to someone new/I lost all trust in my friends, I watched my heart turn to stone/I thought I was left to walk this wicked world alone" again talks about disenchantment and the fall-out of being let down by everything that you know in "Something to Believe In".
There's a reason that this album was not a commercial success, at least not here in the US. It's a total departure from what made them successful in the first place; we can't just shift gears from up-beat, happy songs that we can sing along to in our cars with the windows rolled down on a summer's day to songs that make us want to sit alone in a dark room with a bottle of wine, a crazy straw and a box of tissues. They returned with a compliation, greatest-hits like album after this that restored their image and got them back on their stadium-rock track. But there's something to be said for this departure; it might not be filled with a long list of number one hits, but the music and lyrics are soulful and meaningful when given the time to be appreciated.
I wrote this in an effort to show that Bon Jovi isn't just some throw-back to the days of Aqua Net and spandex; they aren't just a hair metal band that sings of all the women they've had back stage at their shows. Yes, there are plenty of those songs on their albums and we love them (when you hear Jon and Richie say to pretend groupies "bring your girlfriend....bring your mom" in an invitation to party on their bus during "In and Out of Love", you know that they were a rock band in the '80s). But if that's all you think they are capable of producing, I ask you to take a listen to "These Days". It will open your eyes to a couple of song-writers, recently inducted into the Songwriter's Hall of Fame in June 2009, who do truly pour out their hearts and souls onto the pages of their compositions.